Imagine being 13 years old and witnessing something that makes you run away from home. That’s exactly what happened to Domtila Chesang, a Kenyan woman who became a powerful voice against a terrible tradition: of Female Genital Mutilation (FGM).
Before we tell you about her incredible story, you should know what exactly FGM is. Female Genital Mutilation or FGM refers to the practice of removing or injuring a girl’s external genitalia. It’s often seen as a religious or cultural ritual, but it has devastating physical and emotional consequences. We’re talking about severe pain, infections, and even death. It takes away a girl’s right to a healthy and happy life.
Despite efforts to stop it, FGM is sadly still practised in many parts of Africa and the Middle East. There are a lot of reasons behind this, like some believing it’s necessary for girls to become women, or that it controls their sexuality. But the truth is, it hurts girls and takes away their bodily autonomy.
It’s a complex issue with deep roots, some dating back centuries. Lack of education and misinformation keep this harmful practice alive.
Incredible Story of Domtila Chesang
Domtila’s story is what makes her a true hero. She grew up in West Pokot County, Kenya, where FGM was a common practice. Life there revolved around community and tradition. But even as a child, Domtila felt a spark of something different. When she was just 13, she witnessed her cousin being subjected to FGM. The pain and fear she saw ignited a fire in her – she knew she couldn’t let this happen to other girls.
Domtila didn’t wait around. She started speaking out against Female Genital Mutilation, even at a young age. Imagine a teenager taking a stand against a deeply ingrained tradition. Talk about bravery! She talked to friends, family, and anyone who would listen. She even used radio programs, a powerful tool in Kenyan communities, to spread awareness about the dangers of FGM.
The I_Rep Foundation
Domtila soon realized that change needed to happen at the community level. So, she founded the I_Rep Foundation. This amazing organization works to educate people about the harms of FGM and empower girls to make their own choices about their bodies. They even provide scholarships to keep girls in school, which is another powerful tool against harmful practices.
She even started working closely with local leaders, elders, and parents to challenge the cultural norms that keep FGM alive.
Standing up to tradition isn’t easy. Domtila faced criticism and even threats from those who believed FGM was necessary. There were times when her activism brought tension within her own community. But Domtila persevered. She knew that the future of girls in her community depended on her courage.
For many years, Despite her remarkable accomplishments and unrelenting efforts toward ending this harmful cultural practice, Chesang’s name remains largely unfamiliar outside of her local community. It was only after some local media outlets published her story, that she got some attention from international media. She has received numerous awards and recognition, including the prestigious Mandela Washington Fellowship.
There’s More to Her Story!
This is just a glimpse into Domtila Chesang’s incredible story. There are so many other interesting details, challenges she faced, and victories she celebrated. Perhaps she surprised herself with her own strength, or maybe there were moments of doubt. Did she ever feel scared? How did her community react?
We don’t want you to keep guessing about her incredible life and the many other unsung heroes out there. From the bottom of our hearts, we invite you to read our book series, Unfold the Stories of Unsung Heroes. Parts 1 and 2 are already available on Amazon, filled with inspiring stories like Domtila’s.
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July 6, 2024 at 5:49 am
Thank you dear Brother for writing and sharing about this remarkable woman. Even in countries like Australia we have had pockets of this cultural practice infiltrate our society. Educational programs respecting culture but highlighting and bringing into LIGHT practices that are destructive to human wellbeing as was always intended whatever your religious God/Deity may be, need to be available.,
July 6, 2024 at 10:37 am
Thanks for adding your thoughts from Australia, Faye. Domtila is truly an inspiration.
FGM is a complex issue, but shining a light on it, as you said, is crucial. And it’s not just about respecting cultures, but also protecting people.
July 6, 2024 at 7:34 pm
I had no idea what FGM was before this, but it sounds awful. What a powerful story, Can’t believe she was so young when she decided to fight against FGM.
July 7, 2024 at 5:30 pm
It indeed is. Taking a stand at such a young age really take strong guts. Domtila’s story is inspiration to all.
July 7, 2024 at 6:26 pm
I know that FGM is unfortunately still barbarically practiced in many parts of Africa and the Middle East and I found that Domtila Chesang was truly strong and courageous
July 8, 2024 at 10:44 am
So glad you found Domtila’s story inspiring, Luisa. She truly is a warrior. FGM is a horrific practice, but amazing women like her are fighting back.
July 8, 2024 at 2:15 pm
Thanks a lot for your kind reply!
Wishing you a lovely Monday
July 8, 2024 at 5:09 pm
🙏🙌
July 7, 2024 at 10:54 pm
I often wonder how some of these dangerous practices originate. You and your writing partner are unsung heroes, Ritish, for bringing the stories of these beautiful souls to life. Keep up the good fight, my friend. ☀️
July 8, 2024 at 10:45 am
Right?! It’s crazy to think where some traditions come from. But you’re right, Domtila is definitely a beautiful soul! Thanks so much for the kind words, it means a lot. 🙌🏼We’ll keep sharing these stories and shining a light on heroes like her.
July 9, 2024 at 7:42 pm
Oh my Ritish, it’s so hard to imagine this and I cringe everytime I hear this has happened but hearing Domtila and her bravery is inspirational.
Thank you for sharing this important piece. 💗
July 10, 2024 at 11:12 am
I know, right? Domtila is incredible! Hearing about these practices is awful, but her story is so inspiring. Glad you enjoyed the post, Cindy 🙏🏼
July 10, 2024 at 2:18 pm
So powerful story . Didn’t knew this and thank you so much for highlighting
July 10, 2024 at 7:12 pm
It is indeed a powerful story. Thanks for reading! We’ll keep highlighting real heroes like her.
July 11, 2024 at 3:23 am
FGM is still quite common in certain countries and communities. It’s so heartbreaking and horrifying. Domtila is so brave for speaking out about this and opposing FGM.
July 11, 2024 at 10:54 am
You’re right, FGM is a terrible practice, and it’s shocking that it still exists. Glad you found her story powerful.
July 12, 2024 at 7:13 pm
Bravo to this young woman. Often, our warriors for causes don’t choose that job. It falls to them and they don’t step away. My heart goes out to her.
July 13, 2024 at 1:17 pm
Absolutely! Couldn’t agree more. Sometimes you just gotta step up, you know? And it sounds like she’s faced some challenges for sure.
July 12, 2024 at 8:29 pm
Beautiful story of Domtila real warrior well shared thanks 🙏
July 13, 2024 at 1:23 pm
Domtila’s bravery is unreal. Glad you enjoyed the post, Priti 🙏🏼
July 13, 2024 at 1:37 pm
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July 15, 2024 at 11:35 am
You’re right, some heroes truly seem larger than life! That’s why we focus on sharing the stories of real people who’ve done extraordinary things for society. We aim to present their authentic experiences and struggles. You can trust that the stories we share are well-researched and true to the best of our knowledge.
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July 17, 2024 at 4:44 pm
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Alright, I just bought my copy. Will start reading it soon, there are other books in a queue as of now.
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July 15, 2024 at 7:14 pm
As you stated, this strong person and beautiful soul is a warrior. I agree with Lisa up there in the comments about you two also being unsung heroes. Heroes don’t let heroes die, at least, not their legacies. And, yes, if women survive this without infections, it absolutely robs them of pleasures others are free to have.
Even women who may agreee it is a meaningful tradition may very well choose against it if allowed to decide whether or not to participate at say, 25 years aged – when the brain’s frontal lobe is fully developed.
In the U.S., young adults’ car insurance costs lower at this age. Though it’s stated that at this time, more safe driving experiences have been had, I don’t doubt there is a reason in regard to brain development. At 13, Domtila clearly discerned short – and long-term consequences of this procedure. Thank you for sharing her bravery with the world.
You may already know this, but I found it interesting: https://www.healthline.com/health/teen-brain-development#reward-centers
July 16, 2024 at 4:25 pm
Thank you so much for your thoughtful and encouraging comment, Dawn ❤️🙏🏼We’re always so honored to share stories like these with all of you. Highlighting these stories is our passion, and it means a lot to be recognized.
Domtila’s strength and courage are truly inspiring. Knowing about the frontal lobe’s development at 25 makes her decision at 13 even more incredible. It wasn’t just physical pain she rejected, but a potential future she couldn’t even fully grasp.
Thanks for that article, it was so interesting to read. I might read a blog about this too.
July 24, 2024 at 5:46 pm
She is truly brave to stand up to tradition for the sake of herself and other woman. Thank you for sharing. It’s important that people know about it and about women who are not well recognized.
July 26, 2024 at 10:54 am
Totally agree! Domtila Chesang is a true hero and inspiration. Her impact will be felt for generations to come. Thanks for reading and sharing your thoughts.