MY DAD’S DIARY

Dear all thanks for your love and support you have shown till now, Keep supporting us like your friend & family. Today’s blog is about my Dad and his diary which he left for me to understand and learn.

We all have one fighter in our life whose struggle inspires us, motivates us to reach our destiny. And for me, there is one fighter close to my heart, I barely talk about him, he is a family man, a dreamer, a true scholar, sober-minded, an optimist man, Chanakya lover and I still don’t have any words to explain his unique personality.
This post is about a warrior and his battle, his failures, an inspiring journey, and at last just 2 days of success.

Here I tried to give some glimpses from his diary…..

Struggle As A Child

In the cold winter when the sun hardly gives his appearance, water becoming freeze, nights become longer, a boy takes birth and by hearing that news whole village comes out from their houses to see the first glance. As in the village, everyone is family.

His mother was very happy after a very long time, his father was distributing sweets, villagers were dancing everyone was in joy because he was the sucessor and only a child in his family.

But destiny had written something else…..

A year later when a boy could barely speak, was trying himself to take food, he lost his father. And then his mothers decided to play the role of Lone Wolf by carrying all the responsibilities. He had no idea that how tough life is going to be in the future.

As he grew, his mother sends him outside of the village for better education. As a dream of every parent, his mother also wanted him to be a good and successful person in life.

Education is the best friend. An Educated person is respected everywhere. Education person beats the beauty and youth.

chanakya

Struggle makes people strong, and that struggle at an earlier age makes him wise and he knew that education is the only way that can make him a successful person. so, he decided to leave the comfort zone and left home at the age of 11 for better opportunities.

He worked hard by sacrifice all his desires and joys and after years of struggle, he came back with the prestige of the district topper and made his mother proud again.

There is a proverb that Dream big who knows when will it becomes reality.

The same attitude he always used to keep in his mind, and always used to keep himself ahead on public rallies, public services, and many other things. He always tried to be kind to everyone he met in his life.

One of the interesting stories from his diary that he spent most of his pocket money to free the birds from the prison of a vendor. That proves how kind he was.

His speaking ability was remarkable that once the chief Minister of the state impress by him and called him to address his rally.

Struggle As An Adolescent

There is some self-interest behind every friendship. And there is no friendship without self-interest. And that is a bitter truth.

Chanakya

Same like this quote he always betrayed by his friends. He used to trust blindly in his friends but got nothing in return, not even loyalty. In search of success, he did many startups but got failed and cheated by his friend cum partners. That costs him a huge loss which was almost half of his property. That was the biggest failure of his life.

Family Oriented

Fighting with failures he never got discouraged and always used to search for positivity in negativity. He never left his mother alone. In just one call he came back from Delhi where he was preparing for further studies and decided to help her mom who always devoted her life to make him a gem.

ARISE, AWAKE

AND

DON’T STOP

TILL THE GOAL IS REACHED

swami vivekananda

The famous quote by Swami Vivekananda always encouraged him not to stop until you reach success. He alone tried to do it. After a period of 50 years, he decided to study again, and at the age of 50, he became an advocate. This was the biggest success after a lifelong struggle.

Two days of Success

During his struggle time whenever failures hit him badly, He never disheartened himself. That was the thing everyone should have in them. Finally, the day arrived, after many attempts & struggle he got success but again his fate was in no mood. His life took another turn. He failed at that place in which no one has control. God calls him and gave the reason for cardiac arrest just before the day when he became a member of the Bar Council.

But his name became immortal in our hearts forever. May be life was too harsh to him but he fought. And I feel proud to say that this was the Diary of my Dad.

Many times people teach us some bad and right things, this is what I called LIFE EXPERIENCE. Overall we all learn from failures. If you don’t fail, it means you haven’t even tried yet.

The motive of telling you about my father’s diary is that the mistakes my father did in his life. But that mistakes are now life lessons for all of us and especially for me. Here what I learned from my Father.

• Never trust anyone blindly whether it is your loved one.
• You have to be mentally physically & emotionally strong.
• Never disheartened by failures and do hard work until you reach your goal. whether it’s a success of two days only.
• Always be kind to your elders, family, poor, animals.
• The world is beautiful but sometimes it is too harsh to handle. And that’s the truth. You have to be prepared for every aspect of life.

Thank you for visiting and reading my blog. It was written to honor my dad’s journery.