Men never cry. As said by society, but they haven’t told Are they talking about real men? Because I know they do.
Today I don’t have any story to tell but I think being a real man is (muscular) itself a story and sometimes it becomes a curse. It is said that no one can understand women, but I think being a man itself a mystery.
According to Wikipedia:- A male organism is the physiological sex that produces sperm. Each spermatozoon can fuse with a larger female gamete, or ovum, in the process of fertilization, or in common language is called “mard/mardangni/muscular“
According to society:- A muscular human being full of energy, whose responsibility started when he is born, a strong human being who never cries and can keep his secret inside for a long time, but if he explores secrets deep inside him then he is Namard(no man).
In this world, mard/muscular man is identified by his sexual powers or desires, how many girls he can hold for a single time? or what is the duration during sex? how strongly he can fight with people.
But if a man denies doing the same so the comments like “Bina bandook ki goli kis kaam ki” (what is the point of an unloaded gun) are taunted by the society to them, whether the intention of not doing the same is might be to respect the girl or he doesn’t want to embarrass his/her family.
Isn’t it these things are too quick to conclude the identity of a man?
A man has been taught from an early age that you are not a man if you will cry and share your problems with others. Solve your problems on your own. Society has made a taboo that the man who shares the problem is of weak heart and society started laughing over them.
It is found that over 70% to 80% of men looses their life by cardiac arrest, which has caused by unhealthy food, smoking, and stress.
A man’s biggest weakness or fear is his family when he entered into a life of responsibility, he is directly bound with the responsibility of his children, wife (a girl who was the princess of someone and now keeping her same is his duty) for making their life happy and full of joy. Sometimes they have to leave their home and work for their family. Recently I clicked this picture that really compelled me to write this post.
Having a muscular body, good looks, health and wealth, heavy beard on his face is the identity of men according to our society, even in my country in many fields the selection is done according to their beards. Like in some Security forces, extra remuneration is paid according to the mustaches policy.
But what if someone doesn’t have a beard? Is he not a real man?
Feminism is the advocacy of women’s rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes, but who knows it can cost someone’s life, allegations, or hate.
Some people have taken feminism so wrong that honest and innocent people also came under the trap and they couldn’t even handle the situation and committed suicide
Check out this story – Gurugram schoolboy commits suicide after girl levels allegations on him on Instagram
Although, It is true that most of the rapes are attempted by men. But if there is a law for a man so a law to save thousands of innocent men who got trapped in this world or fake feminism should also be made.
This is also heartbreaking that even after the suicide attempts by a man, still the society will blame or say that how the weak man was he, couldn’t handle the situation and taunt him like “such a weak man, he can’t be my son/husband/father, he doesn’t have guts “
REALLY?
Our society has come from a long journey now women also have equal rights, they can also work like a man, can feed their families, and help their husbands. This is the society we always wanted where everyone has equal respect, where everyone holds equal rights.
Being muscular is the identity of men, whole society thinks that a man must guard his family with his muscles, but if anyone doesn’t fight society makes him a coward, but the reality is that he values the family more than being a superhero because once a rival always harms by any means.
Yes, men can cry, men can share, and allegations affect them, please don’t make assumptions. And if a man is not showing muscularity so it doesn’t mean he is a coward, he is wise and he thinks more about his family rather than his muscularity.
One must know the true meaning of Gentlemen.
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I love this post!!!😀😊☺ Real Men do cry.
But we don't want you to cry 😂 Just keep smiling 😉
Sure thing. However not all criess are bad.😂
😁😁 Yes
Yes,,are you?
Yes. I am!😊😂😁 What about you?!
Well im trying to cry😂 it's good for health and thankyou for visiting my post❤❤
Anytime.
I saw my father with tears when I used to leave my mother’s home going to ‘sasural’.
Really its true because you are his princess and a father never wants to leave her daughter ❤🤗 and i think whenever you go back home he is the only person who is more happy then anyone else
Now his memories makes me cry.😪
I am sorry for your loss. But his blessings is always there with you
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Nice insights. It's a gift to be in touch with all facets of human emotions and know that are not us. It allows us to access our deeper selves with more connection.
Emotions are something that can make someone strong or weak, the problem lies how we can control it. In fact we can't even control some in built emotions.
and thanks for read❤
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Thankyou Philip for this gesture❤ i would love to give response
Your welcome Joshi 💟
Men should cry when they need to without judgement. To say strong men don’t is severely outdated. Everyone needs to vent. Holding out emotions in may lead to illness and making terrible life choices.
I am agree with you, but this society has make this a taboo which provoking them to do suicidal attempts even in recent case our country young rising star come under this trap ,,why? Because of this shame and still many people and talking that he his weak man he can't do? But no one talking why this discrimination.. im sorry but this is a sad reality of our so called fake society.
True. African-American women deal with this too. Society won’t allow her to feel or show feelings. If she has no support system, she has to go through it alone. Society isn’t all it is cracked up to be. We all have to manage. Even if it means going somewhere privately to 😢.
Exactly this is everywhere and im writing about this problem in our next blog, hope you will read that❤, thanks for coming🤗
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I have always preferred men of intellect, integrity, and humanity. Muscles are OK, but not the main goal in life.
Yes, absolutely right men have lot of different qualities also in spite of the muscles we have to conquer that and im glad u understand men ,thanks for sharing your views
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Discutons de nos souhaits
Qu'ils se réalisent
Discutons d'avoir une grande maison
ou tous ensemble , amis du monde , on se rassemblera chaque saison
Rêvons d'une nouvelle société de paix
Où chacun de nous aura son nid
Rêvons d'un monde paisible
Où l'on oubliera les soucis les plus pénibles
Rêvons ensemble de ce futur
Où l'on effacera le passé le plus dur
Partageons d'un sourire éternel
en survolant l'immense ciel ou la joie sera pure
Tu vois mon ami , amies du monde
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bonne fin de journée bisous Bernard
Je me sens mieux aujourd'hui après ce beau poème.
Merci beaucoup pour ton message.
Et comment ça va
Qu'est ce que vous fassiez aujourd'hui ?
Bonne journée.
Et Merci pour visiter. 😉
The men I have loved, my father, my husbands, and my significant other have all cried in my presence. I’m glad they didn’t feel the need to hide their tears from me. It is not a sign of weakness for a man to cry. It is a sign of authenticity.
Well said ,, and i sure that if they are expressing themselves so that means they really love you and you understand them more than anyone else. I’m happy that you are with them, god bless your family 😊 Do visit again
a very great post. society keeps on changing its acceptable norms. These have no meaning. Men don’t cry is more symbolic of a display of weakness. That shouldn’t happen because it worsens a bad situation. Your post is very good
Aspiringblog appreciates your valuable words, this is true image of society that they always bully men who cry or show their feelings,we really respect you and your thinking😊
Violence against men by women is not so seldom but a complete taboo theme which would require also some attention.
Indeed, in our society pesudo feminism intentionally hurts many men physically and mentally, this is a very good point. Much appreciated 🙂
Well typed!
I do believe many forms of feminism within groups of women seem to be wanting to nearly destroy the masculine, which is very much needed, and especially today with people becoming so whiny about everything. Many people actually need to tap into their masculine side & toughen up a little bit. : )
Well said, fake feminism is on peak and its somehow harming the masculine not in terms of emotionally but physically too
I have my personal opinion on the feminism https://theblogera.com/pseudo-feminism/
Hope you will understand what i try to convey…
Thanks for visiting
I am going to go read it now.
You are welcome
My pleasure renee😊
I went there … apparently I had already visited that post, read, & liked it. : ) Therein, you articulated your view of matters quite well.
So grateful renee😊