Men Never Cry?

Men never cry. As said by society, but they haven’t told Are they talking about real men? Because I know they do.

Today I don’t have any story to tell but I think being a real man is (muscular) itself a story and sometimes it becomes a curse. It is said that no one can understand women, but I think being a man itself a mystery.

According to Wikipedia:- A male organism is the physiological sex that produces sperm. Each spermatozoon can fuse with a larger female gamete, or ovum, in the process of fertilization, or in common language is called “mard/mardangni/muscular“

According to society:- A muscular human being full of energy, whose responsibility started when he is born, a strong human being who never cries and can keep his secret inside for a long time, but if he explores secrets deep inside him then he is Namard(no man).

In this world, mard/muscular man is identified by his sexual powers or desires, how many girls he can hold for a single time? or what is the duration during sex? how strongly he can fight with people.

But if a man denies doing the same so the comments like “Bina bandook ki goli kis kaam ki” (what is the point of an unloaded gun) are taunted by the society to them, whether the intention of not doing the same is might be to respect the girl or he doesn’t want to embarrass his/her family.

Isn’t it these things are too quick to conclude the identity of a man?

5 points to describe the struggle of a ‘Real Man’

1. Keep Secrets

A man has been taught from an early age that you are not a man if you will cry and share your problems with others. Solve your problems on your own. Society has made a taboo that the man who shares the problem is of weak heart and society started laughing over them.

It is found that over 70% to 80% of men looses their life by cardiac arrest, which has caused by unhealthy food, smoking, and stress.

2. Weakness

A man’s biggest weakness or fear is his family when he entered into a life of responsibility, he is directly bound with the responsibility of his children, wife (a girl who was the princess of someone and now keeping her same is his duty) for making their life happy and full of joy. Sometimes they have to leave their home and work for their family. Recently I clicked this picture that really compelled me to write this post.

3. Appearance

Having a muscular body, good looks, health and wealth, heavy beard on his face is the identity of men according to our society, even in my country in many fields the selection is done according to their beards. Like in some Security forces, extra remuneration is paid according to the mustaches policy.

But what if someone doesn’t have a beard? Is he not a real man?

4. Impact of pseudo feminism:-

Feminism is the advocacy of women’s rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes, but who knows it can cost someone’s life, allegations, or hate.

Some people have taken feminism so wrong that honest and innocent people also came under the trap and they couldn’t even handle the situation and committed suicide

Check out this story – Gurugram schoolboy commits suicide after girl levels allegations on him on Instagram

Although, It is true that most of the rapes are attempted by men. But if there is a law for a man so a law to save thousands of innocent men who got trapped in this world or fake feminism should also be made.

This is also heartbreaking that even after the suicide attempts by a man, still the society will blame or say that how the weak man was he, couldn’t handle the situation and taunt him like “such a weak man, he can’t be my son/husband/father, he doesn’t have guts “

REALLY?

Our society has come from a long journey now women also have equal rights, they can also work like a man, can feed their families, and help their husbands. This is the society we always wanted where everyone has equal respect, where everyone holds equal rights.

5. He Must Fight

Being muscular is the identity of men, whole society thinks that a man must guard his family with his muscles, but if anyone doesn’t fight society makes him a coward, but the reality is that he values the family more than being a superhero because once a rival always harms by any means.

Who is a Real Man?

• If a man is taking care of his family and a woman is working outside so is he not a man? Yes, He is. Moreover, he is a good husband and a good father.
• If he is in the kitchen and making food for his family rather than working outside so it means he is a good cook and can take care of his family better than anyone else.
• If he is committing suicide this means the allegations are more dangerous than his tolerance.
• If he is not keeping secrets and crying in front of you this doesn’t mean that he is weak, this shows that he believes in you more than anyone else and has a soft heart.

Yes, men can cry, men can share, and allegations affect them, please don’t make assumptions. And if a man is not showing muscularity so it doesn’t mean he is a coward, he is wise and he thinks more about his family rather than his muscularity.

One must know the true meaning of Gentlemen.

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