Women are also known as the synonyms of Beauty and Grace in us humans. Across time, women’s femininity implies that she is attractive and lovely. But it is also true that across time, women are also humiliated by the stereotypical ideals of Beauty by society.
If we search for “What Defines Beauty?” We get answers as a beautiful woman, a lovely woman, a woman of great physical beauty. But is beauty constrained by good looks? attractiveness? loveliness? The answer is definitely NO.
Today, we’re gonna tell you a story about a woman who has proved that beauty is skin deep. You can be proud of yourself as you are. It’s a heartbreaking story of a wife/mother named “Mary Ann Bevan” who was tagged as the ‘Ugliest woman in the world’. She was born on 1874 December 20 in Plaistow, Newham, London, England.
Mary Ann Webster (Bevan Before Marriage) belonged to a large middle-class family; she was one of eight children born in a working middle-class family. She was a bright student since her childhood. By looking at her keen interest in studying, her parents never let her off from getting an education.
Mary was very attractive and charming, along with being a bright student. Her politeness and compassionate nature led her to become a nurse. She started taking care of her family from an early age.
Likewise, any other woman, Mary, also has a dream of getting married one day, wearing a wedding dress, to looking beautiful. Also, to build a family and to live a joyful & victorious life. Her dream came true soon, she got married to a handsome hunk, Thoman Bevan, at the age of 29.
Thomas was a very benevolent spouse, always encouraging her whenever she needed. Thomas and Mary had 4 children and lived their lives divinely. But upon her marriage, soon Mary was surrounded by many diseases like Migraine, eyesight weakness, muscle pain, and various problems, deteriorating her health.
But her life took a new turn when she became a widow after 11 years of marriage, and her husband left her alone with 4 children. Worse still, she left with no money to feed her children, and she turned into a breadwinner for her family.
After the death of her spouse, she faced many problems like no job, food, etc., but she kept herself motivated to uplift the morale of the family. But destiny wanted something else; her body started deteriorating, and her facial expression started changing inappropriately. She was turning more masculine day by day.
Her entire body changed with large limbs and a big torso, which gave her a ‘homely’ appearance.
She was afflicted with the rare disease named “Acromegaly”. Acromegaly is a neuroendocrine disorder that results in an excess amount of hormones in the human body. It is usually caused by a non-cancerous tumor, adults of middle age are mostly affected by this.
In the 21st century, it can be cured, but it was not possible in the 20th century. That is one of the reasons doctors have no clue about Mary’s disease.
Mary Ann Bevan looked for many jobs that would pay her enough to sustain the family. But wherever she went for a job interview, she got rejected and mocked by using uncivilised words such as ‘freak’ and ‘ugly’.
The going was getting tougher for her with every passing day. She was responsible for feeding and caring for her children, and every day was a challenge for her.
Then one day she found a contest titled ‘The Ugliest Woman’, and contrary to her dreams to look beautiful, she participated in it. Luckily, she won the title and received a lot of money to feed her children and support her family for a while. But that was not enough to run a family for a lifetime.
She knows that a one-time prize would not be going to be enough for her family’s survival. So, she started joining Circus shows to have a stable path of earning. She joined Coney Island’s Dreamland Show, where she found many people of different characters, and she was one of them.
The circus displays the people labelled as freaks, for instance, Bearded women, Siamese twins, Giant men, Dwarfs, and so on, weird terms used for a human being.
She slowly became a matter of entertainment for people, and they started making jokes about her. Gradually, she became popular and started appearing on postcards and greeting cards as a joke. No one would ever like to be a matter of joke about his/her appearance. But that was the only way she could feed her family.
There was a huge demand for Mary’s after she started in the circus. As a result, she barely returned to Europe; she once returned to Paris in 1925 to take part in an exhibition. Mary’s life was changed, and she can now give a better life to her children.
She worked for many years in the circus to entertain the audience, but from inside she was dying every day from the disease.
We know her as the ‘Ugliest Woman in the world’, but she was the proud mother who cared for her family despite mockery and becoming a matter of fun. A mother is the biggest form of a human being, and Mary was the golden example of it.
After the ‘successful’ or a ‘matter of laugh’ in the circus, Mary’s health deteriorated as she suffered from acromegaly disease. A few days later, the disease snatched her life at the age of 59 in 1933.
We can say that Mary had a true love for her family and her country, as she wished her children to bury her in England after she died. As per her mother’s wish, her children buried her at Brockley Cemetery in England.
Mary is not with us anymore, but she always remains an inspiration to all of us. Even though people haven’t forgotten her, since late 2006, people have made cards of her, and even publishers have used it as a hallmark card. She accepted the way she was. Her flaws became her power. People mocked her, but that’s what people always do.
Don’t ever let somebody’s opinion dominate your inner self.
She established an example that, despite making an excuse, you can accept yourself as you are.
We cannot rely on resources given by others for survival; rather, we can make resources from what we have. We have to stay positive and always look for a better future, “Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder “. Just be proud of what you are and what great things you can do.
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Indeed, inspiring!
Joanna
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So heart touching story of a brave Mom 👌🙏🌷 the story lines so inspired,
Beautiful view of the photos ♥️😊👏Mothers definitely can do her children ♥️
This story one example and thanks for sharing 🌷🙏🌷
Yes, she is a proud mother and such an inspirationfor us.
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inspiring read !!
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So moving and inspiring story.
I am blessed that you like the story.
Thankyou.
This is a deeply moving share.
Yes, this story is an inspiration to all of us. Her story ooened the way we look at ourselves.
Thankyou for your comment.
Thanks for another inspiring story! I am ashamed of myself sometimes for complaining about something trivial.
Thankyou for your appreciation Dennis. We should live the way god created us. Everything will be okay then, if we will satisfied by our innerself.
you are SO RIGHT, Beauty lies is in the eye of the beholder
it's not how or what you look like it's your character from within
& how you take care of your self.
Indeed, its depends on us.
Thankyou for your valuable appreciation.
It's been said it's what you feel from inside that shows your true self.
That is so true. Well said!
A wonderful inspirational story, Even those of us who age or lose bits by illness or accident should learn by this story, Thank God for life itself and help me to make it better for someone else. Thank you!
Learning has no age and Mary has taught us that we should never complain about what we got rather than we can prove ourself what we can do.
Thank you
A truly inspiring story, Depak! I enjoyed reading it. I am thankful the disease is now curable. Hope all is well with you. <3
Thankyou for your kind words Cheryl. And yeah thankfully it is curable now.
Good to see you 😊.
*Deepak.
An extremely touching story. This is why no one should ever take pride in their looks/appearance. No one will know what can happen to it a few years hence! Poor woman had to endure ridicule, mockery and died a rather young death. Yet, she became an inspiration and a powerful mother. To me, she is a beautiful lady because her spirit is very womanly and so is what she lived for. An extremely motivating post! 🙏
Very well said sam, she was an exceptional lady and an example for true feminism. She fought the situations rather than moving away from it. Not only women even everyone should take inspiration from her to be a good human being.
And, thank you for your appreciation ❤
I saw this somewhere else, and it's so interesting to me. Human beings, in general, are interesting.
Exactly, there are lots of people who are true example of a good & exceptional human being and it’s better we should start recognizing them.
This is an amazing woman and story. What you guys are doing here is great in multiple ways.
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What a true beauty.
Yes, she was, and the best part was her courage and morale even after such unsual disease.
Such an inspiring story turning a tragic event into a blessing.,
Thanks for sharing! 🙏💖
Indeed inspiring.
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It's a pleasure.. am I behind or caught up?
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I think both 😁
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I do my best to be and I appreciate you knowing and seeing that., 💖💖💖
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This is a beautiful story. It explains the sacrifice of a mother so well!
Indeed, she is the inspiration for all women.
A story both heart wrenching and inspiring. Our society places so much emphasis on external appearance that we have very nearly lost the concept of internal worth.
Well said mam, society often judges people by their appearances. Despite looking at internal beauty they emphasize the external appearance.
How sad how the world labels us by our physical appearance.
This is truly an inspiring story.
Yes, sadly this kind of small-mindedness is still in the world.
Thank you so much for your affection😊
A very motivating story. Thank you for sharing. Don't know what else to say. You guys have said all what I wanted to say! Just left me speechless! Thank you. I just felt a surge of energy after reading this and when I read of how people made jokes of her I just felt like crying.