I guess when we ask ourselves this question the answer will depend on what is happening in our lives during that particular moment. If you are on vacation, maybe you are on a cruise. You might be sitting on the deck, looking out over the ocean at a beautiful sunset.
You have not a care in the world except wondering what you will have tonight for entertainment, food, and drink, then it is indeed a wonderful life.
And that is the way it should be. We can all take advantage when times are good and find the enjoyment in our lives, whatever that may be. It does not have to be an expensive cruise. It can be the smallest of things.
Myself, I find great solace and comfort just being out walking in nature. I am blessed to be living in the Ozark Mountains and it costs nothing to go hiking.
I can see the same beautiful sun that is seen from the deck of a ship setting over the mountains. I look in awe at the majestic colors and beauty of the mountains as the orange sun lights them up. No sunset is exactly the same.
The sky and clouds have slowly painted the colors of turquoise, red, orange, and even colors with no name. It is at these times that I feel closest to my God. It is at these times that I know that all these things, the perfect balance of nature could be no accident. To me, this is all the evidence needed that God created the earth and everything in it.
One thing that brings a wonderful life to most of us is family. There are sometimes spats that can keep us at odds with some family members. A very wise man told me, remember that this family member or friend that you are at odds with is like a growing sore on your heart.
Only you can stop it from growing. But, for the most part, family is the glue that bonds us together. We all gather for birthdays, Christmas, and other holidays. It’s some of the happiest times during our wonderful lives.
And grandkids are the best!
Now, I am not ignorant, nor would I think you to be. It is written that, “In this life, you will have hardship.” To think differently would be naive. There are a lot of ugly things going on in the world right now.
I will be 71 this Summer and I can make a long “Hardship list.” But I will not, nor will I ever make such a list. Being a recovering pessimist, that list has been put in “the vault.”
What makes you happy? People find joy everywhere. It’s there for you. I see people finding wonderful enjoyment in their gardens or even the kitchen. Heck, I love to cook, and I am in awe of how simple ingredients come together to make an amazing dish.
Indian food is probably the best example of using spices to make something bland and uninviting into a masterpiece!
My point is, do not be a “Negative Nancy.” Find happiness in your life. It does not have to be expensive. You may be the only person who knows the things that make you happy. We all have a limited amount of time on this earth.
Make sure you don’t waste your time with sores on your heart or just accept what comes along.
Make sure that your life is one of those “wonderful lives.”
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March 3, 2023 at 7:42 pm
A beautiful and inspirational guest post by Dennis – a reminder to us all to truly recognise the blessings in life, to let them come to the forefront of our lives, not letting our mind dwell on its difficulties! A wonderful share and wow, the sunset photo is divine!
March 4, 2023 at 3:49 am
Thank you so much Annika! My second love after writing is photography.
March 4, 2023 at 2:15 am
Very true and inspirational words Dennis. It’s really important to focus on the good things in life. Almost anything can be turned into a positive if we try.
March 4, 2023 at 3:51 am
Thank you, Michelle, very much! My sister says the same and encourages me to write more articles focused on the positive.
March 4, 2023 at 8:38 am
Is it really a beautiful life. Thank you for your blog. Beautiful . A-men. I found today when I awoke with backache. Sometimes a problem if I twist my spine at night etc, Today hopefully I will still walk but I thought of my friend far away who is recovering from a stroke. I made a card from my craft resources. The beauty of the simple cut out images touched a chord in my heart and I was reminded again that looking for and at what is beautiful in this life even in the midst of life’s hiccups makes life and living worth every day we have.
March 4, 2023 at 5:51 pm
Thank you, Faye, for your nice words! A homemade card is the best! I know about the back pain and hope and pray your pain is eased.
March 6, 2023 at 2:03 pm
Wonderful guest post Ritish!
I love your love of nature Dennis which doesn’t cost a cent 💕🙌
March 6, 2023 at 4:16 pm
Hi Cindy, and thanks for reading and taking your time to comment! I do love nature and getting out there.
March 7, 2023 at 1:10 pm
What you addressed is what I needed the most at this moment….. Thanks a lot Sir !
March 7, 2023 at 8:33 pm
I am so glad, Ishmeet! I needed it too. Thanks very much for reading and taking the time to leave a much-appreciated comment!
March 12, 2023 at 11:36 am
I completely agree with you that finding joy in the small things in life is what makes life wonderful. Your story about hiking in the Ozark Mountains and being in awe of the beauty of nature is very relatable to me.
I remember a time when I was going through a tough period in my life and felt overwhelmed with stress and anxiety. One day, I decided to take a walk in a nearby park, and as I walked, I noticed the sunlight filtering through the trees and heard the sound of birds chirping. I felt a sense of peace and calm wash over me, and for a brief moment, all my worries disappeared. From that day on, I made it a habit to take a walk in nature whenever I felt stressed or anxious, and it has become one of the things that bring joy and contentment to my life.
March 12, 2023 at 6:18 pm
Thanks, Ann for reading and your comments. Yes, there’s just something about being in nature that grounds me. The birds and animals never seem to worry. Some plan like the squirrel, but they just go about their lives. As humans we seem to struggle most of the time.
May 26, 2024 at 7:28 pm
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Greetings pk 🌎
David López
June 5, 2024 at 7:03 pm
I love you have such a beautiful setting to wake up to Dennis. It sets the tone for a day to be blessed and thankful for which we know makes all the difference in the world! Love that discord is a wound on the heart with family members. Let me just say it can be very challenging, I so much know and we love them and come together and rejoice. I think both are true and honest conversations and joy help balance out the good time and bad cuz I don’t want to be “negative Nancy” all the time.. 💕☀️💓
June 17, 2024 at 8:49 pm
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Blessed and Happy afternoon 🌞
Greetings PK 🌎 DAVID LÓPEZ