Oh, Mondays. The day that everyone dreads. The day that makes people groan and complain. But why, you may ask? Well, let me tell you, there are so many reasons to hate Mondays.
First of all, if you’re a corporate person, then Monday is definitely the day you want to skip from your week. This day is universally hated at work, although it has nothing to do with your love for your job, instead about that you don’t feel like working on Mondays. You want to stay relaxed after a relax on weekends.
Do You Too Have Monday Blues?
Yes, the Monday blues. What’s not to love about feeling down and uninspired on the first day of the workweek? It’s like having a constant rain cloud over your head but without the refreshing rain. Instead, you get to trudge through your day, counting down the hours until you can crawl back into bed and pretend that the week doesn’t exist.
And let’s not forget the joy of having to put on your “professional” face and pretend that you’re actually happy to be there. It’s like wearing a mask but without the cool superhero powers.
I even asked my friend one Monday morning – “Why do people hate Mondays so bad?”
And he said – “Well, who wouldn’t love Mondays? It’s the start of a new week filled with endless possibilities, fresh challenges, and the opportunity to sit in traffic for hours on end. Plus, who doesn’t enjoy waking up before the sun rises, dragging themselves out of bed, and putting on their best fake smile to face the day? And how about the thrill of checking your overflowing inbox, attending endless meetings, and feeling like you’re getting nowhere fast. I mean, come on, Mondays are the best – if you’re a masochist!”
Well, that was the answer I would have never expected from him, but I think he’s kinda lost it too.
Anyway, there are hundreds of reasons on the internet why we dislike Mondays too much, but here are a few of them that I find too interesting to mention.
Reasons Why Do We Hate Mondays
1. Nobody likes to get up early
Who doesn’t even like that sweet morning sleep? Is it me or just the bed seems like you’re floating on a cloud. Waking up at the crack of dawn to start another mundane week of work or school is just the highlight of everyone’s week.
I mean, who wouldn’t want to leave their warm, cosy bed to face the drudgery of Monday morning? It’s not like we all have better things to do, like sleep in or enjoy our weekends or anything. Nope, it’s all about those early mornings. So much fun!
2. You have a lot to do this week
People hate Mondays because it marks the start of a new work week, which means they have a lot to do. After a weekend of fun and relaxation, it can be tough to switch back to work mode and face all the tasks and responsibilities waiting for them. The thought of tackling a mountain of work can be overwhelming, and it’s easy to feel demotivated and down.
3. No more Netflix and chill
After a weekend of binging on their favourite TV shows, Monday means it’s back to work and no more lounging on the couch.
4. Your boss is a real jerk
The classic “my boss is a real jerk” reason for hating Mondays. We’ve all been there, haven’t we? It’s like clockwork – as soon as Monday rolls around, you can feel your blood pressure rising as you prepare to deal with your unpleasant boss. But hey, let’s look on the bright side – at least your boss is consistent, right?
5. The Monday hangover
After a weekend of indulgence, Monday is the day when we have to face the consequences of our choices and drag ourselves to work with a pounding headache.
6. The Struggle to Remember Basic Social Skills
After spending the weekend in our pyjamas binge-watching TV, Monday is the day when we have to put on real clothes and try to remember how to interact with other human beings.
7. The Monday morning Email avalanche
Monday is the day when we have to face a never-ending stream of emails that somehow accumulated over the weekend.
Well, Weekends Aren’t So Great Either!
No doubt, weekends are a great time of the week. Those 2 days when we can finally relax and unwind after a long, stressful week. But let’s be real here folks.
The weekends aren’t all they’re cracked up to be. Sure, you may be able to sleep in a bit later, but what about when your brain decides to wake you up at the crack of dawn anyway? I mean, WHY? Stupid brain.
And sure, you may have more time to do the things you love, but before you know it, the weekend has flown by in the blink of an eye. So yes, we hate Mondays. But let’s not forget that the weekends aren’t so great either. At least on Mondays, we have a legitimate excuse for being grumpy and unproductive.
Why Everyday Feels the Same and How it Contributes to Our Monday Blues
Have you ever experienced a sense of deja vu, where every day seems to blend together and feel the same? It’s a common phenomenon that many of us can relate to where every day feels the same sometimes. Our routines and daily habits can make each day feel like a repeat of the one before.
And this feeling can be a major contributor to why we hate Mondays so much. After a weekend of trying to break free from our routines, we’re suddenly thrust back into the same monotonous cycle. The same commute, the same desk, the same coworkers, and the same tasks. It’s no wonder why Mondays can feel like such a drag.
So tell me now – why do we hate Mondays so much? Is it the start of a new workweek? The end of our precious weekends? The realization that we didn’t accomplish everything we set out to do last week?
Maybe it’s all of the above.
But as much as we love to complain about Mondays, let’s remember that we’re not alone in our misery. There’s a reason why “Monday Blues” is a common phrase.
But fear not, my friends. As long as we can find humor in our struggles and work to break up the monotony of our daily routines, we’ll make it through each and every Monday.
And who knows, maybe we’ll even learn to appreciate the start of a new week. (But let’s not get too ahead of ourselves, okay?)
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March 18, 2023 at 8:48 pm
I am sorry, but I don’t have any dislikes, Mondays or anything else as far as the days of the week are concern. I am a lark and love getting up very early. By now some of your readers will hate me, no matter, I am still happy. I am called Sunshine by those who know me well as I never am in bad mood in the morning.
Joanna
March 19, 2023 at 8:14 am
Hi Joanna, It’s wonderful to hear that you are a morning person and that you don’t have any particular dislikes when it comes to the days of the week. I can see why your friends call you Sunshine!
I’m sure some readers may envy your ability to be a morning person, but it’s important to remember that we all have our own unique preferences and tendencies when it comes to sleep and waking up.
March 19, 2023 at 1:11 pm
I agree, Ritish! Just wanted to explain why I could not “like it”.
Joanna
March 19, 2023 at 4:35 pm
Got it, Joanna. Thanks again for reading and sharing your thoughts.
March 19, 2023 at 10:54 am
Oh Joanna, yes those who knows you can never hate. Also tjose who don’t why should they?? Yes you are a Sunshine, as beautiful as Sunflower. I love you for what you are and for being such an awesome amazing personality with many inspirational thoughts.
Yesss you are an early morning butterfly who enjoys every beauty flying over the flowers enjoying the morning dawn with melody music and heart filled inspiration….I can keep writing many things about you with loves n respect 😇😇❤ wish you all the happiness and joy.
March 19, 2023 at 1:09 pm
Honestly, Dear Suma, you will have me in tears of joy, reading your words! Thank you! Blessing to you! You made my day!
Joanna
March 19, 2023 at 5:01 pm
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March 19, 2023 at 2:34 am
Ritish, I do remember the days of getting up at 5:30 every morning. I can relate to the reasons people hate Mondays, and really disliked getting up while it was still dark! Being retired for over ten years, I don’t set an alarm clock anymore. I usually go to bed around midnight and wake up around seven. Sometimes I stay up all night when I feel like it, but I regret it the next day when I do that!
It is great to not have to get up and go to work, but if you allow it to happen to you, all the days can become the same. Take care, Ritish! Monday only comes once a week. <3
March 19, 2023 at 8:18 am
Thanks Cheryl for sharing your experience with waking up early and your transition into retirement. ❤️
It’s important to maintain structure and find activities that bring joy and purpose into your life, even in retirement.
You’re right Monday only comes once a week. Let’s try to put on a happy face and embrace each day with gratitude and positivity, even if we secretly hate it. 😁
March 19, 2023 at 10:44 am
Hi Ritesh, hope you are doing good 😇 I do feel Monday comes in just blink of an eye but yah that oh no it’s Monday feeling comes ‘coz of shitty boss or gloomy people around when we think about working.
Definitely that’s not of work ever. This is a brilliant and great article. Gradually people are getting out of such lazy thoughts coz the environment everywhere is getting changed according to people’s wishes coz people don’t show up with results without their minds be8ng clear n happy. So much to write about this topic but can’t articulate so well as you did. Soo inspiring n good one.
March 19, 2023 at 4:34 pm
Thanks, Suma, I’m glad you liked this article. And yes, you’re right there’s so much to write about this, although the environment and people’s mindset are changing for the good there are still so many people who feel stressed thinking about Mondays and there can be so many reasons for that.
March 19, 2023 at 5:04 pm
I don’t hate Mondays, but they are usually the busiest day of the week. Spending a nice weekend helps to get up in good humour and having a “Happy Monday” cup of tea, too! 🫖😊
March 19, 2023 at 7:09 pm
Yes, that can be the reason. The busiest day and tons of work after a relaxing weekend.
The only thing that gets me out of bed on Mondays is the thought of a big, steaming cup of tea, just like you said. 😁
March 19, 2023 at 11:28 pm
Likewise Ritish! 😊
March 20, 2023 at 12:51 pm
Thanks
Have a wonderful week!
March 19, 2023 at 6:20 pm
Hi Ritish. This is an interesting post. I’m a morning person so I’m up before 6 every day of the week. Yet, sometimes on Mondays it’s hard to drag myself out of bed, even though I do enjoy my job!
March 19, 2023 at 7:13 pm
Thanks for reading Michelle. As a fellow morning person, I can completely relate to the struggle of getting out of bed on Mondays, even when you enjoy your job.
But hey, we’re resilient creatures and I’m sure we’ll find a way to power through and make the most of our Mondays. Have a wonderful week ahead!
March 20, 2023 at 4:23 am
I remember this feeling so much when I lived in the competitive world of business and Mondays heralded a new surge of ‘have to do’s to be accepted and appreciated. I’m older now! Life has shifted majorly. I have changed. It was not always easy.as in the middle of the Monday hassle there was always a strong goal and direction. Older age heralds a significant shift. This shift brings with it a blending of the days into less defined hassles. I remember, Thank you for expressing it so forcefully. Thoughts and appreciation to ALL with Mondayitis. May you all journey forward with hope for accomplishment but NEW BEGINNINGS in your future days of less driven. Blessings!
March 20, 2023 at 12:38 pm
Thank you Faye for your beautiful comment. It’s great to hear that you have been able to navigate the competitive world of business and find a new sense of balance and purpose in your life as you’ve gotten older. I appreciate your message of hope and encouragement for those struggling with the pressure and expectations of Monday, or any day for that matter.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom and positivity. 💗🙌
March 21, 2023 at 12:31 am
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March 21, 2023 at 1:14 pm
Thanks for reading, Stacey! Have a lovely day everyday
March 31, 2023 at 2:46 am
I think it’s how your outlook on life is. And maybe where you stand in your goals or just your job. If you hate your job, you will hate Mondays more than other days because you are “waiting for the weekend” as a popular song calls it. I’ve been there. But here it comes, an old saying: “If you love what you do, you never work a day in your life.”
March 31, 2023 at 12:24 pm
Thank you for sharing your thoughts Dennis. I completely agree with you that our outlook on life and our circumstances, such as our job and goals, can greatly affect how we feel about certain days of the week. However, I also acknowledge that finding a job or career that we truly love and are passionate about is not always easy. Sometimes, we may have to go through a period of discomfort or even dislike for our job before we find something that truly resonates with us.
Thanks again for sharing your insights!
April 1, 2023 at 9:54 pm
Now that I’m retired Monday morning is just like any other day, but when I taught, Monday iwas a bit of a difficult day: the students still thought about what they had done on Saturday and Sunday and couldn’t wait to get to chat to communicate it to all their friends😉
August 8, 2023 at 9:11 am
I don’t hate Mondays, Ritish. But they’re hard to welcome after having the weekend off. It’s nice to have two days to do whatever you want, not having to report to anyone. Your schedule is yours alone or with your family. I just treasure time with my husband and family so much, and we’re getting close to retirement, so that’s my reason for the Monday blues. But I don’t hate them. Like Joanna, I’m grateful for each new day. Good topic to discuss. 🙂
August 9, 2023 at 11:26 am
Well, well, someone’s got their Monday game strong! 😀But I totally get your point here, Lauren. Just remember to share some of that Monday enthusiasm, will you? The rest of us might need a little inspiration to shake off those Monday blues.
Keep rocking those Mondays! 🙌
August 9, 2023 at 6:38 pm
😁
October 5, 2023 at 12:31 am
Well Ritish, I can relate myself with ‘Monday Blues’😅…..I do hate Mondays. I wish Sundays could be 2-3 days longer.
October 5, 2023 at 12:32 pm
Honestly, I don’t exactly hate it, but sometimes its kinda reset button of the week and work 😅
yeah, I wish that too!
May 12, 2024 at 6:07 pm
Splendid 👌🏽👌🏽
May 12, 2024 at 10:28 pm
Thank you
May 14, 2024 at 11:34 am
It’s a real thing! Do you know a lot of heart attacks happen on Mondays? They need to read your blog and try to lighten things up! 🙂 Happy Tuesday, btw.
May 14, 2024 at 10:28 pm
Ha! You’re not wrong, Stacey, Mondays can be brutal on the heart (and soul). Maybe this blog will be their lucky charm. Thanks for reading, and happy Tuesday to you too 🙌
May 15, 2024 at 3:51 am
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May 18, 2024 at 3:24 pm
Great question Ritish. Well, this question is really hated by people and I can imagine some Bloggers skipped this question and just said boring, next😂🙌
Also, great description of what a blue Monday looks like. Well in all honesty, nobody likes Mondays, it is a dreadful and boring day plus it can be a bit longer. I remember when I was working, I had to just force myself to go to work but man, that feeling of deja vu hits hard. Well, you have no choice but get your ass back to work, I mean bills have to be paid😭🙌. Life generally is too much and it is unpredictable
May 19, 2024 at 10:55 am
I agree 😅Mondays are like that alarm clock that goes off way too early. But of course, in the end, bills gotta get paid. So this whole Monday thing doesn’t make sense. Anyways, wishing for a productive and positive Monday tomorrow 😃🙌
May 20, 2024 at 9:01 am
Thank you my friend🙏. You too brother. And don’t sleep a lot, the alarm clock will punish you for that, haha😂😂
May 20, 2024 at 12:44 pm
Haha…in fact I didn’t even sleep thinking tomorrow is Monday.
August 22, 2024 at 4:34 am
Hello Ritish Thank you very much for sending the Link to your blog on Monday. I appreciate how in depth you have gone into the many reasons why we hate Monday’s. I enjoyed reading your blog today. I have a different perspective on Monday’s now. Even though as one reader said” Monday only comes once a week”. She is right. It is the worst day to face or is it just a phobia created because weekends are too short?
Have a super Wednesday Ritish and to all of your readers!
August 22, 2024 at 4:38 am
This comment named ” Anonymous” is not so. My Name is James Best. My blog is https://Myplace3187.WordPress.com. I am sorry for being called “Anonymous” Ritish I did something wrong my friend.
August 22, 2024 at 4:40 pm
Don’t worry about the ‘Anonymous’ mix-up, it happens to the best of us. Have a fantastic day and a great rest of the week (including Monday)
August 22, 2024 at 4:39 pm
Hi James, I’m glad I could help shift your perspective on Mondays. And I love that quote too – so true! Thanks You!