Home RoundTable My Viewpoint Downside of Being “Unexpressive”

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    ridhii
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    Have you ever fall into a situation where you feel a lot but unable to express it? Did you ever face problems for not being expressive? What exactly the “expressive” word mean? It simply means that you share or express your feelings, emotions, thoughts inside you. If you’re not revealing how you feel that means you’re not expressive. Has anyone ever thought that how it really feels not to share what is going on inside you? It must be feeling suffocated, depressed, or even worse. Sometimes keeping things to oneself is not a healthy thing to do. They lack in showing their love and affection towards anybody. They just believe that it’s better to be quiet than to hurt. They find difficulties in building relations because not everyone will accept them as they are. Expressing things is always challenging for them and sometimes their thoughts start dominating them every minute. After that they find themselves alone or in emptiness and stay in that emptiness they will start to begin to doubt themselves in every aspect. A lot of people ween unexpressive people to be heartless but they are just bad at expressing themselves. They are heartless is not the reality. Even most of the inexpressive people find emotional and kind. It’s just a wrong perception of them made by the people. But sometimes we should express ourselves in any way to whom we are comfortable. There are various ways to do so. If not everything at least we should share our serious things which put us in a miserable situation or of which we are not able to find solutions or sort things. We don’t have to put unnecessary pressure on our minds. Sometimes by sharing things makes us feel good, relaxed, distressed, and light, and as on the other side society should accept whoever they are and it may be possible that we also include in them who faces these things may be at a different time.

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    Sharmashubam
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    I have read your post, yes u have put some valid points but i must say sometimes its good to keep your things within yourself. Because chankya says that if u tell your secrets to others they might harm u badly.
    And im not agree with your point u mentioned that these things makes your relationship weaker or dominating, i think you are with wrong one if he or she can’t understand your silence.

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