We have many people in our surroundings who feel it problematic while expressing their emotions and thoughts. I won’t say that they are introverts, they are just not good at expressing themselves. Well, it’s not troublesome, but a habit of less talkativeness or expressing themselves becomes difficult for them occasionally.
Albeit, not everyone person can be the same but the world has different opinions for the unexpressive people. It is true that expressions play a key role in the transmission and make understanding easier. But if a person has a good heart and is helpful also, but can’t express himself properly, should we have the right to gauge them?
I hope you are well aware of our new launch of ‘Roundtable’ (It’s a discussion page where you can write about your personal opinions). For more information visit Roundtable. Here one of our participants- ‘Ridhi‘ wrote about the Downside of being unexpressive, and she mentioned some amazing points regarding it.
For instance, she said being an unexpressive person makes their life miserable and occasionally bleak also. Does it make her in a quandary of What to say about? and How to say it? I think this happens to most of us also. And that’s bound me to write about it. From what she said about Unexpressiveness, you can visit the downside of being unexpressive.
What An Inexpressive person looks like?
Before we go further let’s just look at the identity of unexpressive persons. They are also the same as us but they have less habit of talking. They keep the things within themselves but have good observation.
Naturally, they believe in realities rather than speaking nonessential. They might be pure-hearted emotional and kind. I am obvious that these people have a different vision for looking at the world. Then why their temperament is reckoned?
They definitely have empty space inside them which we generally ignores or can’t see.
Because everyone loves gratitude, we love gossips, relationship building, etc. But who is bad in expressing oneself might be failed to do so. But I don’t think that this defined somebody’s overall personality. Now, let’s talk over the difficulty inexpressive people confronted in their day-to-day life.
Everyday Struggles of Inarticulate Person
The problem in Communication and Expression
Expressing our beliefs & emotions is an essential part of communication. With good communication, we can express our thoughts, ideas, and feelings. However, who are bad in it makes it troublesome for them, people speculate them to egotistical, heinous, and don’t give ample attention to them. I think this is enough to make anyone dismal.
Relationship Building Becomes Puzzling
A healthy relationship starts with a healthy conversation. Everyone loves to feel special especially when your date is sitting in front of you. Romantic talks, gifts, gratitude, a decent sense of humor are often practices usually used on many dates. However, what if a reserved person is not good at showing feelings with their date?
It will create a nasty resemblance which might cultivate misconceptions and could make a relationship vulnerable. But I think for a healthy relationship, we need to look more and dig deep, and I will discuss it later.
Feeling Of Loneliness
Most of the tongue-tied people seem to be alone. Although they also have a friend circle, again due to lack of expressions, they feel chocked inside their mind. They often failed to reflect emotions in front of others. That feeling of loneliness makes them think that they are alone. Do you know? There’s a difference between Being Alone & Being Lonely.
It is often noticed that in a most serious situation while others are crying or soothing, they seem to be normal and stagnant which burst out their feeling and rupture their heart.
They Can be persecuted by Someone
In an earlier time when the laws in universities were not rigid, the seniors or old students often oppress the juniors and newcomers. Those who were good at representation normally can complain to their parents and teachers but those who are not, naturally find themselves in trauma.
The point is these people often bullied or dominated by powerful ones because of lack of raising their voice they make themselves a slave which destroys their soul and feels humiliated every time.
Indeed, expressions are very valuable for healthy communication but it’s also not logical that we judge somebody just by looking at them, like the cover of the book. Unlike we make false speculations following their personalities.
In the final Words
There is a lot to talk about over unexpressive people but as I said not everyone can have the same personality. But it’s also true that communicating expression plays a vital role but there are many areas, where we need to think for the community which lacks in expressing themselves for instance,
In relationships rather than looking for an expression of your partner, we should look at their genuine soul and should focus on building a strong understanding. We should not have to infer his/her if they fail in expressing themselves. This will make the relationship weaker and misunderstandings between the two will rise
Also, if you are dominated by someone you should raise your voice against him rather than keeping silent and crying alone. A bit of daring could stimulate you in reviving the confidence and moving on.
Writing is surely a great way of communication for those who aren’t good at expressing emotions. But they are more reserved and thoughtful, and perhaps their writing can inspire plenty of people. Writing is a great way to get your voice out there without even actually saying it.
Related Post:- Why you should Write?
You can also write your feelings in a diary or just talk with close & trusted ones whenever you feel depressed. Diary writing or blog writing will help you in expressing yourself. Also, if you are looking for interacting with people on any topic you can visit Roundtable. Here you can present your opinion or can reply to others in a very simple way.
So, what are your thoughts about Inarticulate or inexpressive people? Any stereotype you have? I think we all surely have at least that one person in our life. We would like to know here in the comment.
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March 28, 2021 at 9:28 pm
WordPress made it easy to comment on a post. Share our views. Sharing links. Asking questions. And provide an open space to talk. Have you checked the above points while working on Roundtable?
March 28, 2021 at 10:25 pm
This has nothing to do with WordPress.
It’s more like a discussion platform. It’s not only for posting a post or just to write for the sake of write and appreciation.
Its about presenting and gathering all the opinions or perspectives of or any specific topic, so that it can create a meaningful and a healthy discussion/conversation.
Where everyone has equal chances, that’s why it is RoundTable.
March 28, 2021 at 10:31 pm
I have used WordPress as just a reference.
Don’t you think it looks more ideal than reality? Anyway, take your time. Let’s see how people react. I wish you get succeed in what you are trying to do.
March 28, 2021 at 10:40 pm
Yep, definitely Ideal is the expectation.
And unfortunately there is no growth in comfort zone.
And Thankyou for your wishes. We have the same wish for you too.
March 28, 2021 at 10:43 pm
Learning is always there. That’s the best thing about all of us.
March 28, 2021 at 10:45 pm
That’s Right. No doubt
But Glad you asked.
March 28, 2021 at 10:43 pm
yes, my husband!
March 29, 2021 at 4:44 pm
Haha, I assume He is just shy.
March 29, 2021 at 1:25 am
I relate to this so much 💗💗💗
I am not completely unexpressive but I try to not express myself until it is very important!!!!
March 29, 2021 at 3:13 pm
Well I must say this can be a good habit also.
March 30, 2021 at 9:07 pm
Some are really unexpressive but it is hard for some who pretend to be unexpressive. Brilliantly written Ritish.. well done
March 30, 2021 at 9:27 pm
Thankyou for giving your time reading this.
(But actually it was written by my partner Deepak and I’m afraid he’ll beat me for taking his credit)
March 30, 2021 at 9:33 pm
Haha .. convey by comments to Deepak..
March 30, 2021 at 9:41 pm
Haha i have already seen your complement thankyou for it…..
Whether it’s me or ritish point is you must enjoy our writes, and we will do our best for it..
Cheers
March 30, 2021 at 9:43 pm
Glad to hear that deepak… go ahead ..
March 30, 2021 at 9:56 pm
We will do our best…😊
March 31, 2021 at 6:43 am
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March 30, 2021 at 11:03 pm
Such a complicated topic! There’s so many reasons why someone might not talk a lot or “express” themselves in an extroverted way. I think the number of those on the autistic spectrum has grown a lot over the past decades, so that’s one group of folks. Culture may be a factor. Maybe just nurture versus nature. In my case, I was EXTREMELY shy at one point, and still am at my core. Possibly because I was adopted? I don’t know. I more or less outgrew it, but being shy in the earlier part of my life did limit my experiences in life, so that was a bummer. And I still have a knee-jerk reaction of saying “No” first before “Yes,” so I have to fight it. Getting out of my own head helped a lot, and not taking myself, or a lot of things, so seriously. Laughter is great medicine! 🙂
March 31, 2021 at 4:13 pm
Indeed, the personality can differ as I mentioned in my post and also it may becomes someone habit also.
See everything has a both aspect like a coin, and pros and cons. I personally think its sometime good to not Express oneself fully because people’s used their feelings for own benifits.
And yes laughter and joy is a great medicine its heels you from any trauma.
August 17, 2021 at 6:45 pm
Some people seem to have taken to heart the old advice that no one will know how ignorant you are if you keep your mouth shut. They suffer from shyness and may feel that they never get a chance to speak. On the other hand, there are those who pretend to be experts on every subject and monopolize every conversation. They inflict pain on others. Somewhere in the middle is the place to be.
Thank you Depak Joshi for this very comprehensive post. I appreciate that writing gives everyone a voice. 🙂 Take care.
August 18, 2021 at 6:40 am
Rightly said, Cheryl, some people always manipulate the conversation. I think mutual understanding plays a major role in the conversation with your partner if you are shy. Toxic people are everywhere the thing that matters is to stay away from them.
Thank you for your valuable remark.